It’s never enough: Roxane Gay on desire, addiction, and TikTok

It seems like everyone is talking about TikTok: its security risks, its seeming ubiquity among teenagers and adults alike. Writer Roxane Gay––whose father introduced her to the app––describes the problem of “pleasurably wasting hours and hours of time” on TikTok and warns about its purposeful addictive and exploitive nature. Is TikTok worth it?

Roxane Gay, “The New Pornographers,” The New Pornographers, 9 July 2024

 

  1. Gay details the many “TikTok rabbit holes” she’s fallen into, from watching viral dances to following influencer feeds. Consider how Gay uses TikTok, and think about how you and people you know use the app. If you use TikTok, what do you use it for? If you don’t use TikTok, what informed that decision? How might you describe your relationship to TikTok?
  2. In this essay, Gay compares TikTok to pornography. How is TikTok like pornography, according to Gay? What do TikTok creators understand about people’s attention and curiosity? How do these creators and the algorithm itself keep users scrolling on the app? Use a short quote (or two!) from the essay to support your response.
  3. In paragraph 14, Gay writes, “The internet age has afforded us a great many things, and primary among them is the ability to expose ourselves, without a filter.” What does she mean by this? Is this “ability to expose ourselves, without a filter” good or bad, according to Gay? Consider who benefits from this exposure and who might be harmed. Do you agree, disagree, or both with Gay’s argument here? Why?
  4. Gay writes provocative and compelling sentences. Pick a short passage (1-3 sentences) that captured your attention. Analyze this passage in depth. Explain what you notice about her tone, language choices, and sentence structure. Do you see her blending everyday language with more “academic” or “formal” language? If so, where?

9 thoughts on “It’s never enough: Roxane Gay on desire, addiction, and TikTok

  1. M's avatar M

    Yes, TikTok can indeed be addictive and a waste of time. However, TikTok has been an effective and beneficial way to get news across the world through all age groups creating a space of awareness about ongoing world problems.

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    1. P's avatar P

      I agree that tiktok can become very addictive and take time away from the things needed to be done. But for me, tiktok has also given me important news that has given me an idea on what was going on in the world. I also think that kids under 10 should not have tiktok, because of the fact their brains are still developing at such a young age. Even though tiktok is an addictive app, it can also help others and even myself relieve stress by just getting your mind off of things. Tiktok can be educational and informative, which is a beneficial reason on how and why it can be used in a good way. Instead of just scrolling for hours because someone is bored. Tiktok spreading awareness through millions of peoples phones is very important. Because something important can be going on that we need to know about, and being on tiktok can hopefully spread that through the for you page. Also, a friend or family member scrolling through tiktok and finding something important can also help inform you or someone else about the world today. People also make income for tiktok, it can be such an important app to people that receive a good amount of money to survive. Another thing is that it can be a good customer engagement for companies that are on tiktok. For brands, it can make them bigger and spread them through millions of people’s eyes. 

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  2. Lisa Thrasher's avatar Lisa Thrasher

    I have never been a TikTok fan. I used to have the TikTok app on my phone only to get updates and recent photos of my daughter. I now have a close relationship with her and TikTok is no longer of any use to me.

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  3. Gordon Rock's avatar Gordon Rock

    I personally don’t use Tik Tok; not for any particular reason, I just don’t. I do use Instagram though, mostly for comedic animal videos. I don’t see a problem with an algorithm that shows me content that is similar to what I actively watch. That saves time scrolling past videos of unboxings,creative pastry making, or other irrelevant topics. Other than being a time waster that activates our pleasure related neurotransmitters, I don’t see any specific correlation to pornography. A similar comparison could be made to gambling, video games, or any other hobby. A person gan get as engrossed in any activity as they as they choose.
    “The internet age has afforded us a great many things, and primary among them is the ability to expose ourselves, without a filter.” as stated above from paragraph 14, Gay is being somewhat self conflicting. For starters, we’ve always been able to “expose ourselves without a filter”(Roxanne Gay, the new pornographer) we just don’t get punched in the face when we do it online. Anyone who creates social media content knows that filters are widely used, from selective editing to photoshop. She refutes her own argument in her opening line ” The influencers, yes, with their perfect makeup and strategic camera angles and professional lighting, all to make their lives seem enviable”
    In paragraph 3, Gay states Families with 10 or more children, often evangelical, who own innumerable coordinated outfits, and think quite highly of themselves even though they are never doing much of anything on camera.’ She goes on to list other influencers seeming pretending to be what they’re not. I sense some sour grapes here. Evangelicals have had a reputation for riding on a high horse about their beliefs long before the digital age. The line “innumerable coordinated outfits” indicates wealth, this may have triggered the authors envy. Psychologists have been saying that people who repeatedly watch videos of others having fun, making their lives seem like a paradise are at an increased risk of not just feeling down on their own lives, but of developing clinical depression. This article indicates that Gay might be one of them.

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  4. rolanda destin's avatar rolanda destin

    TikTok is a useful app when you have a lot of time to waste and nothing else to do The app provides enjoyable content that can make a boring moment worth wild Some of the content can include educational facts as well.

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  5. Vedant's avatar Vedant

    I believe that TikTok has a lot more downsides than upsides, among which addiction is like an unstoppable force which is going completely out of our hands cause there are no remedial measures taken to prevent this. It’s like a cancerous growth that’s slowly consuming us and that’s the reason why I abhor the usage of TikTok or any other social media platform, unless it’s absolutely necessary. This compulsion to keep scrolling unnecessary (and addictive, of course) content is going to have a detrimental affect on us in the long run. Although, its usage can be permitted if we were to utilise it for useful academic purposes (or in some instance for entertainment, in a controlled manner).

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  6. Alice Ford's avatar Alice Ford

    While TikTok is addicting, it’s also something that everyone won’t stop scrolling on. People don’t enjoy scrolling on Facebook reels or Instagram reels because they don’t find the videos on these platforms to be funny. I believe that children under the age of 18 shouldn’t even have TikTok these kids are too young to be scrolling on their phones for hours on end. I believe that kids under the age of 15 shouldn’t have phones. These kids are still at the age where their minds are developing, these kids don’t need their faces glued for a screen for that long or at all.

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  7. shawkat's avatar shawkat

    I think TikTok has more negatives than positives, mainly because it’s extremely addictive. People end up scrolling for no reason, and there aren’t many controls to stop it. That’s why I avoid using TikTok or other social media unless I really need to. Even though it can be useful for learning or limited entertainment, the way it’s usually used can harm our focus and well being.

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